We all know that our physical appearance plays a major part in attracting our mates. It’s the sexual chemistry that should work, right? Is that all, there is to deriving sexual pleasure in the marital bed? If you go to a quack, he will certainly tell you that a big penis and a big pair of breasts is all that is required for sexual ecstasy. However, sexual pleasure is not so simple as it seems.
For two people to desire a great sexual pleasure, the following conditions should be met.
Both partners should be physically fit.
Both partners should have a basic sexual literacy.
Both partners should eat a balanced diet.
Both partners should be able to have sexual communication between themselves.
Both partners should have a positive attitude towards sex.
Both should be disease-free.
Both should be free from any kind of negative thoughts.
Both should approach the sexual activity with a give-and-take attitude.
Any kind of childhood sexual abuse is likely to interfere with the degree of sexual pleasure.
A drug-free lifestyle is a must for deriving sexual pleasure.
Coming to the explanation, physical fitness and proper nutrition is required because sex needs stamina. Sexual literacy is required since many men & women are completely ignorant about their sexual anatomy. If there is no sexual communication between the two, each will not know what the other wants. If one is diseased, say for example obese, it will severely restrict sexual positions and hence lesser joy. With a history of childhood sexual abuse, partners approach sex with fear, hesitation and shame. Sometimes, they may avoid sex at all. Partners taking drugs like tobacco & alcohol can face several sexual problems like ejaculation problems, erectile difficulties or orgasmic or lubrication difficulties. So, size & shape are just one of the many factors which are required for sexual pleasure.
Hence, thinking that sexual pleasure depends on the size and shape of the body, is a MYTH.