Oral Sex is Unhygienic & Dirty
Oral Sex includes Fellatio/Cunnilingus. Fellatio is the stimulation of the male organ by the female’s mouth and Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the female sexual organ by the male’s mouth.
Fellatio or Cunnilingus is neither a dirty nor unhygienic act. A good number of couples include it as a part of their sexual activity. Then why do many men & women believe that oral sex is unhygienic & dirty? Probably it’s their incorrect sexual attitude and lack of sexual knowledge. So, what are the things you need to remember if you are a woman and giving oral sex to a man?
- If you don’t fully trust your partner use a condom.
Successful fellatio involves stimulating the more sensitive area of the penis, basically the glans penis.
- During fellatio, use your hands to fondle the testicles, stroke the perineum or put your fingers in the anus.
- Avoid harsh biting or excessive suction.
And if you a man performing oral sex on your woman, remember the following:
- Gently run your tongue over her labia majoris.
- Stimulate the clitoris using gentle movements & soft nibbles.
- Don’t continue the same movement for too long. Apart from working on her genitals, kiss her thighs, groin & perineum.
- Insert your fingers into her vagina, but make sure it is well lubricant first.
Some women believe that only prostitutes perform oral sex and hence avoid performing fellatio on their husbands. Others believe that any form of non-procreational sex is sinful. Women avoid fellatio because their husband’s organs are unclean, due to the accumulation of smegma. Others believe that the organ used for elimination, can’t be used for sexual pleasure purposes. This is all erroneous thinking.